The house
my father fixed
All his life, my father picked up tools instead of words.
The day we fixed that house again, we understood.
My hand trembled as I turned the key.
The house my father lived in for 32 years. The house we moved into when I was in 2nd grade, where I lived until I graduated high school. The house I came back to every holiday, even after I married.
The moment the door opened, the smell came first. The smell of wood, of old wallpaper, and of Father.
My father never once called a company
Since childhood, I took it for granted that my father fixed things. When a faucet leaked, Father fixed it. When a door creaked, Father fixed it. When a fluorescent light went out, when the wallpaper peeled, when the boiler button wouldn't obey. Father fixed it all.
"Dad, shouldn't you call a company to fix that?" I once asked.
I can't remember what he said. Probably he didn't answer, or said, "It's fine."
My father was a man of few words.
All his life, my father never once
said "I love you."
Instead, he picked up his tools.
Walking through the house, I found my father
I went to clear out the house for my father, who was in the care home. Thinking I might have to fix the old things and rent or sell it.
But in every room, in every corner, there was my father.
Wandering room by room, I slumped onto the living-room floor. In the very spot where I used to sit as a child.
Only then did I understand. That the house being fine was not a given. That it was fine because someone kept quietly fixing it.
I never once said "thank you" to my father
When Father caulked the window gaps, I watched TV in my room. When Father filled the cracked bathroom tile with cement, I was on the phone with friends. When Father glued the peeling wallpaper, I had already left the house.
My father never complained.
He never once said, "I fixed this."
He never once said, "It was hard."
He just fixed it. And sat down at the table as if nothing had happened.
That day, I cried alone in the living room for a long time. There wasn't a specific reason. It just felt like I had to cry. When there are things you realize far too late, maybe a person just has to cry.
For the first time, I called a company
I wanted to fix this house properly. The things my father had somehow held together alone all his life — this time, the right way. The way my father couldn't.
I opened the PanSol app. I put my finger to the chat window.
A partner came. He said his name was partner Lee. A man who looked to be in his mid-50s. His age was close to my father's.
He walked through the house in silence. He saw the duct tape on the bathroom pipe, the cardboard behind the shoe-cabinet hinge, the wood piece under the kitchen shelf. He said nothing.
It was near the end of the work.
Hearing that, tears came again.
My father didn't just wind the tape. He wound it thinking about the direction the water flowed. So it wouldn't leak. So it would last. So we wouldn't know.
"Or thought a lot."
The partner's one remark echoed in my ears all that nightNow this house waits for my father
All the repairs are done. The pipe no longer leaks. The shoe-cabinet door opens without a sound. The boiler will be warm this winter too.
Yet strangely, the house felt unfamiliar. It became clean and tidy, but somehow it felt like a bit of my father's smell had left.
Leaving through the entrance, I looked back.
The shoe-cabinet door stood straight. Where the cardboard under the hinge had been gone, a new screw was driven in.
I gazed at that spot for a long time.
Only now did I understand how big a thing that one small folded piece of cardboard my father had wedged in really was.
My father in the care home is still silent. When I hold his hand, he just lets it be held. When our eyes meet, he nods slightly.
Last time I went, I held my father's hand and said,
Father said nothing. He just gripped my hand tightly.
That was my father's way. Always.
A house isn't made of walls and a roof alone.
It's made by the hands that fix, wipe, and keep it.
That those hands are love,
we learn far too late.
But still we learn. In the end.
We fix your precious home,
the right way
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